you aren't losing it.... ()

you aren't losing it....
Posted by CoffeeDrinker on May 14, 2008 at 00:57:48

In reply to: Re: Baby...you are* posted by Madh on May 14, 2008 at 00:41:56*

...you just think you are. Picky is good.

The thing that makes most people panic about not finding someone is the fear of being alone. And that's legitimate--we're social beings overall, even the most introverted needs some social contact.

But alone-as-in-not-in-a-relationship does not have to be a bad thing. Making that life a happy place is something that is largely within your control to do.... finding Mr. Right isn't. So put your energy into the things you can control--living a happy life--and should a Mr. Right come along, you can make some room in your life for him.

Take the fear out of it, MadH? What's the worst that can happen if you don't meet someone? You'll be on your own, but hey, you can do a lot of stuff on your own to make that a happy thing.

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> ...you just think you are. Picky is good. > > The thing that makes most people panic about not finding someone is the fear of being alone. And that's legitimate--we're social beings overall, even the most introverted needs some social contact. > > But alone-as-in-not-in-a-relationship does not have to be a bad thing. Making that life a happy place is something that is largely within your control to do.... finding Mr. Right isn't. So put your energy into the things you can control--living a happy life--and should a Mr. Right come along, you can make some room in your life for him. > > Take the fear out of it, MadH? What's the worst that can happen if you don't meet someone? You'll be on your own, but hey, you can do a lot of stuff on your own to make that a happy thing.