Re: OK, segway ()

Re: OK, segway
Posted by alegreme on May 14, 2008 at 05:43:11

In reply to: Re: OK, segway* posted by Madh on May 14, 2008 at 00:34:00*

Hey mh,
You sound like you are in the place I was in when I decided to take a break from any kind of a r ... best thing I did for ME at the time!

Take a break and do what YOU want, find what makes YOU happy and just enjoy YOUR life.

Like CD said ... being alone in your life does not equate to loneliness. I found I was MUCH happier post xxxmm once I started to figure out how to live alone and make my life full of what nourished me. NOT me nourishing anyone else!

Seriously, you are just getting back to a sense of normalcy after all you went through this past year.

When you find your balance after being off for a while, you are better able to judge what is good for YOU and set off a search for that.

THEN you can think about finding a "hottie" to let you "rule" lol!

As for xmm trying to contact you, well, since you are done, try to think of it as a pesky insect that is invading your space ... if it was ants you would set out traps to get rid of them. Consider NC the ant trap that will kill off the pesky critter. NC works, eventually if you don't answer, he's going to give up and at some point, your life will be xmm free. YOU have that power ... don't give it away, sweetie.

It gets better ... not worse!

Take care of YOU!

> >I haven't dated since xMM. So maybe I'm biased.
>
> However, I have always been how can I say "picky" at best with anyone I date.
> Now, i'm totally over the edge. I've taken care of 3 men in my life, and taking care is an under statement.
> So my question to you ladies is...is it bad that just the thought of finding someone and I will be a biatch, wrong?
> Because now I know what I want, but I don't think I'll find it. End of story. I'm not taking care of anyone anymore, they will take care of me. I don't take care of anyone financially, emotionally, EVER...etc, etc.
> I rule or go to hell.
> I'm done....me or nothing, eom.
> Sorry for this being so long, just venting, because asshole is continually trying to get a hold of me, and I'm just losing it.
>
> Any advise, strength appreciated.
> MH

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> Hey mh, > You sound like you are in the place I was in when I decided to take a break from any kind of a r ... best thing I did for ME at the time! > > Take a break and do what YOU want, find what makes YOU happy and just enjoy YOUR life. > > Like CD said ... being alone in your life does not equate to loneliness. I found I was MUCH happier post xxxmm once I started to figure out how to live alone and make my life full of what nourished me. NOT me nourishing anyone else! > > Seriously, you are just getting back to a sense of normalcy after all you went through this past year. > > When you find your balance after being off for a while, you are better able to judge what is good for YOU and set off a search for that. > > THEN you can think about finding a "hottie" to let you "rule" lol! > > As for xmm trying to contact you, well, since you are done, try to think of it as a pesky insect that is invading your space ... if it was ants you would set out traps to get rid of them. Consider NC the ant trap that will kill off the pesky critter. NC works, eventually if you don't answer, he's going to give up and at some point, your life will be xmm free. YOU have that power ... don't give it away, sweetie. > > It gets better ... not worse! > > Take care of YOU! > > > > > > > >I haven't dated since xMM. So maybe I'm biased. > > > > However, I have always been how can I say "picky" at best with anyone I date. > > Now, i'm totally over the edge. I've taken care of 3 men in my life, and taking care is an under statement. > > So my question to you ladies is...is it bad that just the thought of finding someone and I will be a biatch, wrong? > > Because now I know what I want, but I don't think I'll find it. End of story. I'm not taking care of anyone anymore, they will take care of me. I don't take care of anyone financially, emotionally, EVER...etc, etc. > > I rule or go to hell. > > I'm done....me or nothing, eom. > > Sorry for this being so long, just venting, because asshole is continually trying to get a hold of me, and I'm just losing it. > > > > Any advise, strength appreciated. > > MH