Breaking my silence... ()

Breaking my silence...
Posted by Trinity on May 14, 2008 at 09:49:47

I'm feeling really beat up in my life right now and needed some friendly people around.

Renette's stalker reappeared in a visit to her bus stop day before yesterday - of course, it's her word against his, so we're waiting for one of the neighbors to come forward and hopefully caught it all on her surveillance camera. Renette and I are sick with worry. The good news is, he turns 18 on Saturday, so let's all pray he just stops the crap until Saturday, when he can formally be arrested for stalking, should need be. It would be better if he would just do something instead of us sitting here waiting for something to happen, kwim?

Fast forward to last night, I’m sitting outside watching Mini-Me play with her friend – they were having the best time rolling down this huge hill in a wagon and laughing so hard, I thought Mini-me was going to throw up (is there anything better than a kid's loudest belly laugh? Just sayin'). I hear my crazy neighbor lady yell down from a window to her husband “Where’s son?” (their youngest) – he says “right there on the hill” – she says “Go get him – that effing brat is down there”…now seeing as how my kid and her friend were the only 2 there and Crazy Neighbor Lady, aka B1tch, lets her kids play with the friend, I could only deduce ‘that effing brat’ was my child. So I sat on my hands and didn’t say a word. Husband says “He’s fine – they’re much farther down, nowhere near son”. B1tch says “I swear to God, if she pushes son down that hill, I’ll effing kill her”.

Now, let me tell you that Mini-me is not the kind of kid who you'd look at and think would do that sort of thing. Mini-me is a lot of things, but cruel and/or mean is not one of them.

I remained on my a$$ because I knew at that point, if I got up, the police would be getting a very different phone call from me. I waited 25 minutes until I could breathe and quietly walked over to the husband. I said “I realize your wife hates me for her crazy reasons – but I would really appreciate it if you both could refrain from dragging a child into this mess”…he says “Lady, I don’t even know what you’re talking about” and walked into the house.

Top this off with the fact that my mother & I have been arguing lately and you've got a stressed out Trinity.

It's just all too much right now - added to the xMM situation. I'm sad, I'm lonely and I'm just not feeling a whole lot of love from my "RL" folks.

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Re: Breaking my silence... JunoRising 22:33:02 5/14/2008 (0)
not sure why you left ... Gigiola 20:25:37 5/14/2008 (0)
Welcome back catsmeow 12:16:04 5/14/2008 (4)
- Thanks, Cats.... Trinity 12:38:16 5/14/2008 (3)
  - Now now catsmeow 13:40:04 5/14/2008 (2)
    - Oh no... Trinity 15:26:04 5/14/2008 (1)
      - oops!!! catsmeow 16:00:09 5/14/2008 (0)
Aw Trin... z 10:23:18 5/14/2008 (3)
- Thanks, z.... Trinity 11:41:30 5/14/2008 (2)
  - Much easier Georgie_Girl 19:39:14 5/14/2008 (0)
  - it will... z 11:46:02 5/14/2008 (0)

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> I'm feeling really beat up in my life right now and needed some friendly people around. > > Renette's stalker reappeared in a visit to her bus stop day before yesterday - of course, it's her word against his, so we're waiting for one of the neighbors to come forward and hopefully caught it all on her surveillance camera. Renette and I are sick with worry. The good news is, he turns 18 on Saturday, so let's all pray he just stops the crap until Saturday, when he can formally be arrested for stalking, should need be. It would be better if he would just do something instead of us sitting here waiting for something to happen, kwim? > > Fast forward to last night, I’m sitting outside watching Mini-Me play with her friend – they were having the best time rolling down this huge hill in a wagon and laughing so hard, I thought Mini-me was going to throw up (is there anything better than a kid's loudest belly laugh? Just sayin'). I hear my crazy neighbor lady yell down from a window to her husband “Where’s son?” (their youngest) – he says “right there on the hill” – she says “Go get him – that effing brat is down there”…now seeing as how my kid and her friend were the only 2 there and Crazy Neighbor Lady, aka B1tch, lets her kids play with the friend, I could only deduce ‘that effing brat’ was my child. So I sat on my hands and didn’t say a word. Husband says “He’s fine – they’re much farther down, nowhere near son”. B1tch says “I swear to God, if she pushes son down that hill, I’ll effing kill her”. > > Now, let me tell you that Mini-me is not the kind of kid who you'd look at and think would do that sort of thing. Mini-me is a lot of things, but cruel and/or mean is not one of them. > > I remained on my a$$ because I knew at that point, if I got up, the police would be getting a very different phone call from me. I waited 25 minutes until I could breathe and quietly walked over to the husband. I said “I realize your wife hates me for her crazy reasons – but I would really appreciate it if you both could refrain from dragging a child into this mess”…he says “Lady, I don’t even know what you’re talking about” and walked into the house. > > Top this off with the fact that my mother & I have been arguing lately and you've got a stressed out Trinity. > > It's just all too much right now - added to the xMM situation. I'm sad, I'm lonely and I'm just not feeling a whole lot of love from my "RL" folks.