my 2 cents .... ()

my 2 cents ....
Posted by NeverAgain on May 14, 2008 at 15:28:58

In reply to: not to create drama in my life...* posted by z on May 14, 2008 at 10:28:44*

> But I wonder why it is that for 6 months he kept telling me that he thinks I'm more into him than he's into me

Self-protection.

> and now after we got back together from our very brief break from each other, he's now able to tell me that he loves me.

Fear of losing you outweighed the fear of saying it.

> I guess I just don't understand how feelings can switch so quickly.

I don't think his feelings changed. I think he just finally sprouted the balls to tell you how he felt.

> I don't know if I should bring it up or not. I don't want to question his feelings for me or put him on the spot.

Nope. No need to mention it. You told him what you wanted. You got it. Be happy. :-)

> I don't know if I'm just over analyzing things.

Yep. You are. Let it rest.

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> > But I wonder why it is that for 6 months he kept telling me that he thinks I'm more into him than he's into me > > Self-protection. > > > and now after we got back together from our very brief break from each other, he's now able to tell me that he loves me. > > Fear of losing you outweighed the fear of saying it. > > > I guess I just don't understand how feelings can switch so quickly. > > I don't think his feelings changed. I think he just finally sprouted the balls to tell you how he felt. > > > I don't know if I should bring it up or not. I don't want to question his feelings for me or put him on the spot. > > Nope. No need to mention it. You told him what you wanted. You got it. Be happy. :-) > > > I don't know if I'm just over analyzing things. > > Yep. You are. Let it rest.