Re: My advice to you..... ()

Re: My advice to you.....
Posted by Gen on May 14, 2008 at 18:37:59

In reply to: My advice to you.....* posted by browneyes on May 14, 2008 at 17:36:47*

Thanks Browneyes. Wow, when I type it out it sounds so foolish that I'm even in this mess, it sounds so pathetic. It's also sad that right now I would rather be her then me at the moment because she has the promise of him in the long run. She graduated school on Saturday(that's where he actually was) so now I think he was just using me until she could spend more time with him.

I don't know how he was able to spend so much time with me without her leaving him though. He got lucky so many times, because she would drive by my house every now and then and he would have just left or just moved his car...very lucky.

It pissed me off that she makes threats to kick my ass and blames me for the whole thing but won't bother listening to what I say. I guess he has her thinking everything I say is a lie and it's been me the crazy one, chasing after him the whole time. I just want some kind of justification or something...I don't know. It's like I never existed.

> walk away from this mess. He is playing the both of you.
>
> Make a life for yourself WITHOUT HIM, without the drama...you will be far better off than he or she ever hoped to be. What is the saying? Living well is the best revenge? They aren't happy, not at all. Would you really like to be her? No, they aren't happy, but the good news is YOU CAN BE...you can rid yourself of this mess and start anew.

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> Thanks Browneyes. Wow, when I type it out it sounds so foolish that I'm even in this mess, it sounds so pathetic. It's also sad that right now I would rather be her then me at the moment because she has the promise of him in the long run. She graduated school on Saturday(that's where he actually was) so now I think he was just using me until she could spend more time with him. > > I don't know how he was able to spend so much time with me without her leaving him though. He got lucky so many times, because she would drive by my house every now and then and he would have just left or just moved his car...very lucky. > > It pissed me off that she makes threats to kick my ass and blames me for the whole thing but won't bother listening to what I say. I guess he has her thinking everything I say is a lie and it's been me the crazy one, chasing after him the whole time. I just want some kind of justification or something...I don't know. It's like I never existed. > > > > > walk away from this mess. He is playing the both of you. > > > > Make a life for yourself WITHOUT HIM, without the drama...you will be far better off than he or she ever hoped to be. What is the saying? Living well is the best revenge? They aren't happy, not at all. Would you really like to be her? No, they aren't happy, but the good news is YOU CAN BE...you can rid yourself of this mess and start anew.