Just one thing to add, lillybee ()

Just one thing to add, lillybee
Posted by catsmeow on July 2, 2009 at 15:12:54

In reply to: Here's how I see it* posted by Angelfood on July 2, 2009 at 14:44:00*

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> IF this is just a casual, FWB relationship, then it's time for you to move on. Why worry about - or even try to "fix" - these very basic things in this relationship if the relationship is not developing into a long term committed thing? If this basic stuff isn't working for you, and the relationship doesn't have any real potential, it's time to move on.
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> Having said all that, if YOU don't think this relationship has the potential to be long term, or if you're not looking for something long term, then stop worrying about what he's doing/not doing - and go find a different guy that better meets your needs.
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Lillybee, if a thorough evaluation on the situation leads you in the above direction, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE look outside your workplace for the next man you date. Certainly you have some kind of life away from that place. If not, it's time to work on that.

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> > > > IF this is just a casual, FWB relationship, then it's time for you to move on. Why worry about - or even try to "fix" - these very basic things in this relationship if the relationship is not developing into a long term committed thing? If this basic stuff isn't working for you, and the relationship doesn't have any real potential, it's time to move on. > > > > Having said all that, if YOU don't think this relationship has the potential to be long term, or if you're not looking for something long term, then stop worrying about what he's doing/not doing - and go find a different guy that better meets your needs. > > > Lillybee, if a thorough evaluation on the situation leads you in the above direction, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE look outside your workplace for the next man you date. Certainly you have some kind of life away from that place. If not, it's time to work on that.