Re: FRIENDS ()

Re: FRIENDS
Posted by z on July 3, 2009 at 16:22:26

In reply to: FRIENDS* posted by I am strong on July 3, 2009 at 15:57:55*

Mine and I didn't remain friends...

However, I would turn it around and ask if this friendship is in secret or if it is an open friendship... i.e. would his W be ok if you call the house and talked to him or would he call you while his W was at home?

Friends should not be a secret. If it is, it's no friendship at all.

Also, if you don't want to be friends with him, then why are you pretending that it is cool when it isn't with you? Why would you torture yourself with a friendship you didn't want?

> Has anyone (I am sure) on here had a mm that wants to stay friends (which is vurtually impossible). They call or text and they seem so happy and it makes you want to reach through the phone and karate chop them in the adams apple? All the while you act like it's cool and your ok , but truthfully you feel like your dying inside and you wished they were too?
>
> Ok , IAS , just breathe........

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Re: FRIENDS- Z I am strong 16:58:06 7/3/2009 (2)
- sorry it took z 21:55:55 7/4/2009 (0)
- Re: FRIENDS- Z Paige 21:37:56 7/3/2009 (0)

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> Mine and I didn't remain friends... > > However, I would turn it around and ask if this friendship is in secret or if it is an open friendship... i.e. would his W be ok if you call the house and talked to him or would he call you while his W was at home? > > Friends should not be a secret. If it is, it's no friendship at all. > > Also, if you don't want to be friends with him, then why are you pretending that it is cool when it isn't with you? Why would you torture yourself with a friendship you didn't want? > > > Has anyone (I am sure) on here had a mm that wants to stay friends (which is vurtually impossible). They call or text and they seem so happy and it makes you want to reach through the phone and karate chop them in the adams apple? All the while you act like it's cool and your ok , but truthfully you feel like your dying inside and you wished they were too? > > > > Ok , IAS , just breathe........