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Very glad to read this...
Posted by Kat on July 4, 2009 at 13:20:30

In reply to: I don't know your story...* posted by movin_silence on July 3, 2009 at 20:27:45*

> ...but were you aware your man was married at the time you started, and decided to stay, in this A? While i really do understand the anger that comes from caring/loving someone more than they do us, I am also aware that I was a willing participant in this pain I'm now experiecning. I had to take some ownership in this, because I knew the situation I was walking into. I didn't think I'd fall this hard, nor did I bother to stop and think about the ramifications if I did. Well, now I'm living it. It's not his fault; I acted irresponsibly to myself. Now it's up to me to stop the rollercoaster. So waht I'm trying to say is, blowing up his world will only hurt a lot of innocent people and will leave you feeling shittier than you do now. What you can do is make the choice for YOU to Stop hurting YOU.

You're one of the few who seem to 'get it'.
Good on you m_s.

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> > ...but were you aware your man was married at the time you started, and decided to stay, in this A? While i really do understand the anger that comes from caring/loving someone more than they do us, I am also aware that I was a willing participant in this pain I'm now experiecning. I had to take some ownership in this, because I knew the situation I was walking into. I didn't think I'd fall this hard, nor did I bother to stop and think about the ramifications if I did. Well, now I'm living it. It's not his fault; I acted irresponsibly to myself. Now it's up to me to stop the rollercoaster. So waht I'm trying to say is, blowing up his world will only hurt a lot of innocent people and will leave you feeling shittier than you do now. What you can do is make the choice for YOU to Stop hurting YOU. > > You're one of the few who seem to 'get it'. > Good on you m_s.