Take care of YOU!
Posted by catsmeow on March 11, 2010 at 18:45:19
In reply to: Re: hey Ally ... posted by Ally on March 11, 2010 at 18:19:48

	This is where your adult Ally takes your little-girl-child Ally by the hand and says, "Do NOT touch that! You'll get hurt!" You have the wisdom to know what to do. Stop yourself even if part of you (the impulsive child side) wants to go ahead. And what you are doing is OK: waiting and doing nothing until the urge goes away. I totally understand that. I would probably do that too, myself. I think as days go by you will feel more and more glad that you haven't responded until finally you can put the curiosity aside and resolve that you don't really need to know anything about him anymore. Knowing his current situation does not help YOU.
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	Re: Take care of YOU! Ally 18:51:34 3/11/2010 (0)
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	Name:    Subject:    > This is where your adult Ally takes your little-girl-child Ally by the hand and says, "Do NOT touch that! You'll get hurt!" > > You have the wisdom to know what to do. Stop yourself even if part of you (the impulsive child side) wants to go ahead. > > And what you are doing is OK: waiting and doing nothing until the urge goes away. I totally understand that. I would probably do that too, myself. I think as days go by you will feel more and more glad that you haven't responded until finally you can put the curiosity aside and resolve that you don't really need to know anything about him anymore. Knowing his current situation does not help YOU.
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