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andi
Posted by sunshine62 on March 11, 2010 at 23:20:31

In reply to: sorry, this was for sunshine62 not posted by her* posted by andi on March 11, 2010 at 18:30:25*

Thanks for posting these words of wisdom for me

Today was a much better day.....no crying : )

Must just be hitting me that its really over and its hard to
Know I won't hear his laughter anymore

I hope your day was a good one!
And thank you kat and hart!!>

> I have learned many things from this board and it has helped me tremndously, mostly to know that I am not alone. Before I found this board I was very alone because these are things most people don't understand and can't talk about.I told you I printed two things from Kat and hart and carry them in my purse. Sometimes emotions get so raw, I don't think straight and it is easier to look at these when I can't get to a computer.
> >
> > simply from hart:desprate is not attractive. what would you gain from contacting him?How could it possibly make you feel better? This guy is actually doing you a hugh favor by leaving you alone.
> >
> > From Kat: something more important to consider if you did contact him, what would you say to him?or if you did contact him and he ignored you, how would you feel? or if you did contact him and the EMR started up again, how would you deal with that?
> > Appearing desperate is the last thing to consider, it one thing but not the most important. You will have lost 3 months of healing,3 months of breaking the habit, 3 months of rebuilding your self esteem. Not to mention the possibility of falling back into the whole EMR thing and being miserable all over again. The curent sadness will lessen in time. You've said you are able to function now, right? in a bit more time, you will not only function, but thrive. Be patient with this... it will come around.
> >
> > This is some of the best therapy I have gotten and I thank everyone. I hope the new OW's will see it and it will help them. I hope I can help someone like you all have helped me. This is tough stuff we go through and mostly we have to go it alone.Andi

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> Thanks for posting these words of wisdom for me > > Today was a much better day.....no crying : ) > > Must just be hitting me that its really over and its hard to > Know I won't hear his laughter anymore > > I hope your day was a good one! > And thank you kat and hart!!> > > > I have learned many things from this board and it has helped me tremndously, mostly to know that I am not alone. Before I found this board I was very alone because these are things most people don't understand and can't talk about.I told you I printed two things from Kat and hart and carry them in my purse. Sometimes emotions get so raw, I don't think straight and it is easier to look at these when I can't get to a computer. > > > > > > simply from hart:desprate is not attractive. what would you gain from contacting him?How could it possibly make you feel better? This guy is actually doing you a hugh favor by leaving you alone. > > > > > > From Kat: something more important to consider if you did contact him, what would you say to him?or if you did contact him and he ignored you, how would you feel? or if you did contact him and the EMR started up again, how would you deal with that? > > > Appearing desperate is the last thing to consider, it one thing but not the most important. You will have lost 3 months of healing,3 months of breaking the habit, 3 months of rebuilding your self esteem. Not to mention the possibility of falling back into the whole EMR thing and being miserable all over again. The curent sadness will lessen in time. You've said you are able to function now, right? in a bit more time, you will not only function, but thrive. Be patient with this... it will come around. > > > > > > This is some of the best therapy I have gotten and I thank everyone. I hope the new OW's will see it and it will help them. I hope I can help someone like you all have helped me. This is tough stuff we go through and mostly we have to go it alone.Andi