A few questions... ()

A few questions...
Posted by Kat on March 16, 2010 at 22:09:14

In reply to: Living with my MM and his Family* posted by Aracari on March 16, 2010 at 17:45:41*

And please don't take offense, I do this with anyone who has a story where the details don't quite make sense to me.

First, you said:
> She does have some inclination as to whats going on, but is in a lot of denial.
Which isn't coming right out and saying that she knows what's going on. "Inclination" indicates that she suspects and "denial" indicates that she ignores.
But later you say:
>Recently, he has told her that he's in love with me, which she knows.
So does she have an "inclination of what's going on but is in a lot of denial" or has he "told her he's in love with me, which she knows"..? Those two things are worlds apart.
Were you in the room when he told her or did he tell you he told her?

Next you say:
>He has also asked me if I would wait for him while he tries to get out of his marriage. This has been very recent, something I'm not quite sure I want
But later you say to Gigiola:
> Quite honestly, I hope to marry him one day
Again, those two things are worlds apart so I have to wonder if you truly know what you want.

I'm not doubting you but trying to get the picture clear in my head for my own sake.

Oh, and welcome to Pink.

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Re: A few questions... Aracari 13:31:04 3/17/2010 (2)
- clear the confusion.... CoffeeDrinker 13:36:28 3/17/2010 (1)
  - Impressed Aracari 13:45:51 3/17/2010 (0)

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> And please don't take offense, I do this with anyone who has a story where the details don't quite make sense to me. > > First, you said: > > She does have some inclination as to whats going on, but is in a lot of denial. > Which isn't coming right out and saying that she knows what's going on. "Inclination" indicates that she suspects and "denial" indicates that she ignores. > But later you say: > >Recently, he has told her that he's in love with me, which she knows. > So does she have an "inclination of what's going on but is in a lot of denial" or has he "told her he's in love with me, which she knows"..? Those two things are worlds apart. > Were you in the room when he told her or did he tell you he told her? > > Next you say: > >He has also asked me if I would wait for him while he tries to get out of his marriage. This has been very recent, something I'm not quite sure I want > But later you say to Gigiola: > > Quite honestly, I hope to marry him one day > Again, those two things are worlds apart so I have to wonder if you truly know what you want. > > I'm not doubting you but trying to get the picture clear in my head for my own sake. > > Oh, and welcome to Pink.