Re: Financial situation ()

Re: Financial situation
Posted by Aracari on March 17, 2010 at 13:20:04

In reply to: Financial situation* posted by Georgie Girl on March 17, 2010 at 10:29:22*

You're absolutely right. Both he and I have discussed how hard it is, and could possibly be for everyone. It's both a wonderful and a disastrous situation. However, I do think that if the sexual part of our relationship was brought out into the open, it wouldn't surprise anyone. Is what I'm doing moral? Is any of what we're all doing moral? I feel so guilty at times, and at other times I wonder why I feel that way. Does anyone else go through that?

I am completely financially secure. He had lost his job a year and a half ago, the house I was living in at the time apparently had black mold which had already killed my dog and was making my birds sick, so we all made the decision that I'd move in and help them out financially and I'd be able to get out of my home.

One thing that I'd like to point out though. He and his wife had talked and talked and talked about me during the initial start of the affair. Like I said, it started with a kiss and he told her of that. They did discuss, way back when, his desire to have a sexual relationship with me. I know, this sounds stranger and stranger as I tell you, but she actually gave him permission to "try it" back then. I don't know if that was a defensive measure on her part, or that she was confident enough in their relationship at the time, or she truly just has fallen out of love with him.

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> You're absolutely right. Both he and I have discussed how hard it is, and could possibly be for everyone. It's both a wonderful and a disastrous situation. However, I do think that if the sexual part of our relationship was brought out into the open, it wouldn't surprise anyone. Is what I'm doing moral? Is any of what we're all doing moral? I feel so guilty at times, and at other times I wonder why I feel that way. Does anyone else go through that? > > I am completely financially secure. He had lost his job a year and a half ago, the house I was living in at the time apparently had black mold which had already killed my dog and was making my birds sick, so we all made the decision that I'd move in and help them out financially and I'd be able to get out of my home. > > One thing that I'd like to point out though. He and his wife had talked and talked and talked about me during the initial start of the affair. Like I said, it started with a kiss and he told her of that. They did discuss, way back when, his desire to have a sexual relationship with me. I know, this sounds stranger and stranger as I tell you, but she actually gave him permission to "try it" back then. I don't know if that was a defensive measure on her part, or that she was confident enough in their relationship at the time, or she truly just has fallen out of love with him.