Re: A few questions... ()

Re: A few questions...
Posted by Aracari on March 17, 2010 at 13:31:04

In reply to: A few questions...* posted by Kat on March 16, 2010 at 22:09:14*

No offense taken at all. I came here for input and apparently a much needed sanity check.

I do bounce all over the place with this.

His issue right now: Although in the late 40's, he's a vibrant, driven, creative man, eager to live life, learn and continue to grow as a person. She has become one to stay at home, watch tv and pet the cat. She's also somewhat unhealthy, constantly suffering from vertigo/falling down, and has some other debilitating heatlh issues.

So from one side, I want everyone to be happy and take care of one another, the way people should. On the other hand, at 35, I'm out there persuing my hobbies, career, and exploring other passions that I haven't had the opportunity to pursue during my 20's. And I want to do these things with him. I want him to take care of everyone, but at the same time, I don't want anything standing in my way. It's hard enough for me to understand, let alone anyone else. Believe me, I understand how confusing it must be for any outsider!

Follow Ups

clear the confusion.... CoffeeDrinker 13:36:28 3/17/2010 (1)
- Impressed Aracari 13:45:51 3/17/2010 (0)

Post Followup

Name:
Subject:
> No offense taken at all. I came here for input and apparently a much needed sanity check. > > I do bounce all over the place with this. > > His issue right now: Although in the late 40's, he's a vibrant, driven, creative man, eager to live life, learn and continue to grow as a person. She has become one to stay at home, watch tv and pet the cat. She's also somewhat unhealthy, constantly suffering from vertigo/falling down, and has some other debilitating heatlh issues. > > So from one side, I want everyone to be happy and take care of one another, the way people should. On the other hand, at 35, I'm out there persuing my hobbies, career, and exploring other passions that I haven't had the opportunity to pursue during my 20's. And I want to do these things with him. I want him to take care of everyone, but at the same time, I don't want anything standing in my way. It's hard enough for me to understand, let alone anyone else. Believe me, I understand how confusing it must be for any outsider!