TOW FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions)

1. TOW FAQ Info
   1. Disclaimer
   2. What is TOW?
   3. About this FAQ
   4. Contact

2. Part One
   1. What is an OW, MM, Ox, etc??
   2. Where did you meet your married lover?
   3. Did you know your lover was married when you started your affair?
   4. What prompts a married person to seek an affair? ------Does it show there is something wrong with the marriage or is it just opportunity?
   5. How much less usual are MW affairs with OM than MM affairs with OW?
   6. Is there really a link between low self esteem and having an affair?

3. Part Two
   1. How do you bear the weekends etc? A User's Guide" to them lonely times.
   2. Is the OW's telling the wife ever justifiable/advisable and why, and at what stage?
   3. Are OW's honest with their friends and family about the relationship?
   4. Do the Ox think the Mx would cheat on them given the fact they are doing that with their spouse?
   5. How do you deal with your Mx sleeping with their spouse?
   6. How much time, on average, do you spend with your lover?
   7. Do the OW/M's feel any guilt about the affair?
   8. How much detail do married men share about their wives, their relationships, sex lives at home, problems, etc?
   9. How do OW feel about their MM's W? Why?
   10. Is it common for the Ox to go to the Mx's house?
   11. Why do so many of the w's seem to be in denial??If they know about the affair...how did they find out about it? Did the MM/W agree to stop seeing the OW/M?Have they?
   12. An affair usually creates an atmosphere where the married party is forced to lie to his or her spouse. Does that person also lie to his or her lover?

4. Part Three
   1. What are the most common excuses the Mx give for not leaving? Are they valid reasons or just excuses?
   2. Who ends the affair and why?
   3. How come some MM's leave, and some don't? What makes the difference?
   4. How do you get through the first few months after the breakup of the relationship?
   5. Is it possible to end it without the anger, bitterness and feeling of dissolution?
   6. Are there differences between the ending of an affair and the ending of a "normal" relationship? If so, what are thedifferences?
   7. If the Mx does leave the marriage....what new problems arise?

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