Angel

My story only began 7 weeks ago. I met a man at a club with some friends. Wehad a mutual aquaintance. At first I thought he was conceited and arrogant.As the night progressed, we danced, laughed and drank together, It was notmentioned that he was married. I looked and there was no ring. I saw him thefollowing weekend and we spent the evening together talking.

Three weekslater I arrive at the same club a little earlier, in hopes that I would seehim again. I see his friend who informs me that he is happily married. I wasshocked. The subject never crossed my mind because of the body language. Wehad/have so much in common that it was too good to be true. Go figure, I wasright. He arrived and I confronted him with it and asked where the ring was.He takes it of he admitted after a little denial. Anyhow, we agreed to befriends, dance and have fun. He was staying married for his child. Two yearold son. We saw each other again a few times than he brought his son over andhas every Sunday-in turn has met my children which adore him. We have grownvery close and shared alot! We have not actually slept together buteverything else is worse. We are very much attached. ALREADY!??? I tried tobreak it off last night. He told his wife he loves her but isn't in love withher anymore. He tells me to hang in there. He comes over every day. Hecalled upset tonight and says he didn't realize just how much he cares for me.He can't work, eat, sleep or anything. I feel guilty, but in the same respectI have never met someone that I am more compatible with. He is great. Idon't know what to do. I care so much for him. But I don't want to be ahomewrecker. This was not suppose to happen. I need to pull away and stayaway until he decides what he wants to do. I don't want him to choose. Iwant him to figure his life out than look me up if he ever seperates. I'm notstrong enough to enforce this. Any ideas? Weak in Ohio.