Lisa

I met my MM at the Beach. One night I went to a show and he was playing in the band. I noticed he kept looking at me from the stage. After the show, he came up and started talking to me. He kept telling me things like, I was the most beautiful woman he had ever seen and he just HAD to talk to me. I thought well, he is OK. I looked at the ring finger and noticed that he did not have a ring. He asked if we were coming back to the show again and it just happened that we were coming back the next night.

The next night, he came up and talked with me before the show and I noticed he had a ring on. He noticed me looking and quickly stuck his hand in his pocket. I thought, GREAT, this is all I need. After the show, he came out and talked to me again and told me more ego boosting things about myself, that I thought I would never hear again after my break-up with my boyfriend. I admit, I was feeling devastated. Anyway, I left the theater and did not give him my phone number or anything.

Later that night, I started thinking about him. I thought, I have got to know what this man is all about. So, I sent him my business card to the theather and thought, OK, if he is really serious about this, we will see if he calls. Well, he did call. He called everyday. I really got to know him on the phone and thought, WOW, this guy is everything I have been looking for all my life, except he's the M word.

I made plans to go back to the Beach and meet him somewhere. I met him at his brother's house. He was SO NERVOUS! He said he had never done anything like this before and I today still believe him.

He was so nervous that night, he asked if he could kiss me. After the first night, I was hooked. We have been thru several issues together and we are still seeing each other. He comes here to see me and I go there to see him. He never sees the W because she works during the day and when she comes home from work, he is leaving to go to work.

He says he loves me and I do believe him. I have broken it off with him one time and he cried and kept calling me everyday. He keeps telling me he doesnt want to hurt me and he cant leave his children. (He has 4 children).

I keep hanging in, because you never know what fate my bring you. Fate brought him in my life.