Contented

I met my husbands' boss at a class reunion recently. I always knew this guy but never met him on a one to one basis. The first night we talked as if we knew each other for a long time. We have alot in common and I felt very comfortable around him. After a few months I call him and tell him I'm attracted to him. He felt the same way but thinks alot of his family and wife. We both said we don't want to hurt anybody but enjoy each other's company. He has come to visit me on several occasion at my part time job and we have talked. Once he met me briefly in the morning where I work out. I'm the one that does all the calling to him.

I mention to him many times I feel I'm the one calling him all the time and he doesn't call me but he tells me he likes it that way. I call him at work but many times I have to call later because usually somebody is in his office and we can't talk. I didn't see him the past several months until last Saturday I met up with him. He was parked in a mall parking lot and said he'd give me a drive to my car which was up further than where he parked so I allowed him to. What happened was good. We petted around for the first time but now I want more. I know he feels the same way but is ver committed to his father's company he works at. He works the majority of the time at least 7 days a week. I think I've realized he will never leave his wife because she owns part of the business his father owns as well as himself.

There is alot conflict going within the business regarding this guy's sister and husband and this guy's wife. It appears they compete against each other and wondering how the father is going deal with the business if something happens to him. This man's wife is very worried about it but this guy says he really doesn't care but I know deep down he feels he should have the business because he has built the business to where it is today. He told me Saturday this is our secret between each other because he just can't afford to lose everythings he has built up.

He's been married for 20 years and I have been married for 25 years. I've never went out on my husband but my husband has had several affairs since we've been married. My children are grown up and I have 2 grandsons and this other man has three children and the youngest is2. I know he's unhappy at home because he has mentioned how his wife constantly bitches.